Im not one to go out and break hearts.. Im a happy kinda person.. and just like to let people be what they want to be.. IF UR MARRIED AND WANT A FLING! STOP HERE! IF UR ATTACHED AND WANT A FLING! STOP HERE! A FACE PIC PLEASE AS IM TIRED OF ASKIN.. LOL.. IF YOU ARE REALLY SERIOUS THEN YOU WILL BE WILLING TO SEND ONE.. Im happy to be single and free.. Im not looking for Mr Right because i found him and he chose to move on.. im just looking for something real.. perhaps im just after a good friend that lives nearby.. the reason why id like to find someone nearby is hey.. i want to be able to just pop over for a chat. i have a soft spot for "Europeans" Blonde/Dark Blonde/Light Brown Hair, Blue/Grey/Green Eyed variety.. But its not the be all and end all in life.. I do need someone that preferably knows how to satisfy a woman (i guess its so that sexually, i get what i need).. However - I still have to get on well with him on other levels.. (he has to make me laugh.. i like to be able to laugh with him AND AT HIM- lol) i dont mind making friends and i wont gaurantee anyone sex before i meet physically because the spark and lure of the emails may not reflect whats in a persons soul.. sorry guys but i have more depth than a quick roll in the hay.. if u want a one night shag only - go to the next profile.. mine is not for you.. physical sex is an option because i wont lie.. i enjoy sharing myself with a man that i can connect well with.. but ill see about that.. and yep.. im bi-curious.. (definitely not lesbian) i havent crossed that boundary just yet if i do it i do it, if i dont i wont die over it.. oh.. and all u guys & girls that want to become full members.. the best way i found is to buy some nice toys to play with (then you get the best of both worlds.. toys and membership) i received them quite quickly after paying for the order (extremely fast service).. it was worth it.. your real first name would be nice in the first email you send me because saying hi knobcheese just doesnt make my day any brighter.. would be nice to know what suburb you live in too.. photos / dna samples / gang affiliations / family health history / full traffic and criminal conviction list would all go down quite well in the first email you send me too.. ROFL IF UR MARRIED AND WANT A FLING WHY DIDNT U STOP WHEN I TOLD YA TO! IF UR ATTACHED AND WANT A FLING THEN UR OUT OF LUCK TOO! WHERE IS YOUR FACE PIC??? i dont ask for much do i.. TAKE CARE ALL.. :-) P.S - I AM LEARNING HOW TO SURF NOW.. ITS THE BE ALL AND END ALL OF ALL LIFE.. IM FAR FROM GOOD (FROTH BUNNY) BUT ILL GET THERE.. I AM IN NEED OF A SURF BUDDY - PREFERABLY ONE WHO LIVES ON THE NORTH SHORE - AUCKLAND. THAT WAY I SAVE ON GAS TO PIHA. (HAHAHAHA AT LEAST IM HONEST)

My Ideal Person well im single and free now and I dont mind chatting about anything with anyone.. i was in limbo but the man i cared deeply for has recently set me free.. I could lie and say i dont care for him but i can honestly say i am a friend for him no matter what..

(males dont get the wrong idea - im not after sex just yet)
i find im sexually attracted to European guys..
Blonde /light brown / dark blonde hair
Blue / blue grey / green eyes
(strange since im mixed myself)

If you know how to play chess.. .. im not that good but ill give it a go.. i do enjoy it..

Im not after a relationship.. Friendships are great to start with..

but I honestly dont mind just making friends..

if mr second to right pops into my life (its all good) but im not going all out to search..

i just enjoy chess and now surfing..

=== CHECK OUT THE UPDATE ===
=== ITS UNDER WHAT IM LOOKING FOR ===
=== UPDATE ===

"WE" are looking for a bi-male..

Im Brown Sugar - He is White Bread

I like Europeans..
Blonde / Dark Blonde / Brown Hair..
Blue / Green / Grey / Hazel Eyes..

He likes (who cares what he likes) lol..

Im No Gaurantee Lay..
Send me a Pic and Ill look first..
He will obviously look if im curious to do more (since he has to be there - no playing on the side for me sorry)..

At least im honest..
Have a Great day!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Anyone - Not Marilyn Manson (he is spooky)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Brad Pitt AND Angelina Jolie
Why - Because Everything Happens

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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