I am an older woman who always dates younger men.for a variety of reas..the last being what you are probably thinking...I have redhair,brown eyes ,am 5'8 tall and am a mom of 4 ,so not too skinny,not too fat,and won't break under pressure...I am NOT just looking for sex..I know maybe I am probably on the wrong site.but at least most of the guys here are honest about what they want..I have been lied to way more often at the NICE dating sites...

My Ideal Person I don't do one night stands and I will not have sex on the first date.. ..I want to have an emotional connection to the man I am with..If this sounds like I am looking for a relationship then maybe I am..I don't need to settle ..a nice man would just add to my already happy existence..I absolutely won't come in between anyone and his wife or girlfriend..that means I wont date you if you have a wife or a girlfriend..so don't ask..I don't do threesomes with other girls..I am not BI..I wont respond to penis pics or no pics..be a man and show me who you are..you can see me...I like big guys with light eyes and lots of muscles..tough on the outside,nice on the inside....I especially like men in kilts...and long hair...Friends first and then see what happens..if you want a sure thing,call a hooker...