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rm_ivyboyforu 50 / M
"fall fling?"
chicago, Illinois, United States
 
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Member Since: April 28, 2003

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rm_ivyboyforu 50/M
chicago, Illinois
Introduction
Hi. Ivy-educated, quiet in person,at least at first, or in large groups, but with penetrating eyes and always warm hands. Quick grin, and a ringing laugh. Looking for a friendly flirtation, a fling, fire... Okay, so I'm not for everyone. I'm attached, long-term, to a lovely girl, who happens to be away for long stretches of the summer. We've always had a 'don't ask, don't tell' policy to anything that happens out of sight, and it's worked well so far. So, discretion is necessary, beyond that... well, the depth of the diversion is up to you, me, and our chemistry. Who might benefit? An attached girl in a similar situation, or looking for missing affection/excitement. An unattached girl... in need of a fun fling, or rebound recharging. Something unentangling, to get her feet wet, or back in shape. Or perhaps a shy (or otherwise restrained) girl, with a secret wish to fulfill or kink to try, who can't ask anyone in her normal circle, for whatever reason, personal blush, or public-eye scrutiny.... So, if you fit any of those categories (or none at all) drop a line, and start a conversation. I look forward to hearing from you. Looking For: Sexy librarian, with secret lace beneath her linen? Shy girl, who might blush with the attention, but enjoy it all the same? Quiet girl, yearning to growl? Hard girl, with a soft squishy center? Okay, maybe you're none of those things. The main thing is, are you looking for some sort of attention, emotional, physical, sexual, or otherwise, that you aren't getting elsewhere, for whatever reason? Whether no one listens when you ask for it, or there's no one to ask, or it's something you couldn't possibly ask someone for, in your normal real-world life.... Short or long term, something that is in addition to, instead of, or separate from, the rest of your life and obligations. An option, a fantasy, a fulfillment. I don't have a "type". Connection is key. Let's talk.

My Ideal Person see above, and I won't have to repeat myself.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Candle Wax, Spanking, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
chemistry -- the ability to flirt back and have fun

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 50 / male
  • chicago, Illinois, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: February 10, 1974
Relocate?: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Married
Height: 5 ft 7 in / 170-172 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Master's degree
Occupation: Prefer not to say
Race: Prefer not to say
Religion: Prefer not to say
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/Prefer not to say
Circumcised: Prefer not to say
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Black
Hair Length: Long
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses