I am fairly new to the lifestyle but some things that I have learned about MFM and Groups that I enjoy. Be articulate and enthusiastic in your communications with people. Perality is a huge A+ for me and most likely people you meet. Be Professional and polite, pushiness comes off as rude and is a big turn off for everyone. When it comes to setting up at date for a meeting be prompt. After dinner and drinks or whatever is set up in the meet and greet if all is clicking ask lots of questions. Make sure you know what everyone is looking for so that you do not step over any boundaries. Be confident in how you ask questions to be reassuring and get to know both parties as you are dealing with a couple. So here's what I learned: •Respect both parties. Yes, you want to fuck the girl, but don't ignore the guy to go rampaging towards her. Clear communication with both parties is essential. Remember you are being invited into a private encounter with a couple. •Be friendly. A positive perality goes a long way in making both parties feel. •Speak up! Communication before, during and after sex is a great way to make sure everything is still on the same page. Don't assume things are okay before you act. A simple question to get a yes/no response can make a huge difference. •You are not there to replace but to add to the encounter. •Have fun and relax. As a per grows in the lifestyle I have found that you become more open minded and are more relaxed to try new things. Be open to what your partner wants and non-judgmental for what they like or want to try. I also like to play alone one on one can be hot and fun.

My Ideal Person What I look for in people is positivity, it is fun to be with people who are confident, they may not be where they want to be in life but are working towards their dreams. It is important to take care of one’s self, personal hygiene is a must. Be able to relax and have fun, I am a laid back guy and often just go with the flow. Life is too stressful and short not to have fun and do not take yourself too seriously. All this is kind of my life philosophy, I work hard and lead a very busy professional life and I still try to make time for the little things this is what I look for in others. Walking a road together is way more fun than walking alone.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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