Not so much into bars and nightlife.I outgrew that. I am low key, somewhat of a nerd. Love to travel and an avid reader. I lead a healthy conventional lifestyle. With mature, assertive Black Men, I am submissive and attentive. Open minded and appreciate Men who can be affectionate while also dominant. In the bedroom I am sweet natured and passive and love to please. Very discrete and lowkey although tend to become softer as we get to know each other. My goal is always to be a plus in whatever the relationship turns out to be rather than a problem and of course to become less masculine, softer and sweeter while looking up to you.

My Ideal Person Understanding that no "ideal" person is likely to exist, my strongest interest is in mature, manly African American Men. Large ,husky or beefy is a plus as well as men who are or have been authority figures. Retired or active military and/or LEOs are very appealing, Men who usually operate in straight settings or are great. No cigarettes .Cigar and pipe smokers A-OK, Shaved heads are a serious turn on.
(Cigarettes/drugs are a turn off.)
Kann auch Deutsch.
Therre's a lot more to say that I haven't said but it comes down to personal chemistry.