Well I am back again. Lets see where this crazy site leads me this time. Dont email me and say hey lets f**k cuz guess what the answer is no..Treat me with Respect and I will do the same back..Treat me like a , then pay me like one!!

My Ideal Person I am back. This time around I am going to try and be more clear on what it is I want in my life.

1. Pictures. I really don't care about your pictures of scenery or your pets or the one the size of a stamp. Great pictures but somehow they are not completing my dating issues. With that being said if you don't have a picture, not necessary to email me.

2. Transportation. This cracks me up if you don't have means of transportation save your email. Don't get me wrong, I love to drive however, I no longer have a livery license to drive you around.

3. Smoking. I am a smoker, if that bothers you I am sorry. I know its a horrible habit but it's my habit.

4. J.O.B. this probably should have been listed as number 1. I realize this is a tough economy and many of us have suffered from it, however I need to date someone with a job. I am not looking for a Sugar Daddy, I have 3 jobs myself. I am looking for a partner, someone who at the end of the day like most are tired from working!

5. Kids. I love children however if you are currently wrapped up in the drama of seperation or divorce, best of luck to you. Baby Mama drama is not high on my list. I passed that test 20 years ago. If all is ok in the seperate household parenting great!!

6. Socializing. I am a social butterfly. Life is too short not to take the time to meet people, learn about them, and decide on what they can bring to your table. So hermits stay in your tank.

7. Drama Free. HaHa where in the hell do you find that. I love when I read that you are looking for no Drama. Life is drama, politics, religion, sports, weather, even traffic. So if you find a drama free life, omg please let me know how you did it. Drama is everywhere, its how we handle it defines our character.

8. Bar Scene. This is another one that confuses me. I don't understand the "I am over the Bar scene", honestly I love it. Now do I go sit in night clubs all night hell no. I cant handle that anymore. But meeting friends out at the local pub, watching sports, talking life, having a few drinks, to me that is fun.

9. Physical Attraction. I want to be physically attracted to my partner. I want my heart to pound and feel that butterfly feeling. I would love to feel the weight of the stare from across the room and know exactly where that stare will lead me later.

10. Motorcycles. I love them. I love the people that ride them. I love the brotherhood of the bikers. Doesnt mean you have to have a bike, just means have that brotherly hand to help others out.

11. Tattoos. I have them. Several of them. This is my body, and my decision. If that offends, I totally understand they are not for everybody.

12. Politics/Religion. Lets not even go there!!

13. Adventure. I love Adventure. I love to put on my dress clothes and head to the Art Museum, or throw on a pair of ripped up jeans and head to the local watering hole. I never say No to trying things, there is so much to do out there, so why not try and do it.

14. Sports. I love Chicago sports. I bleed blue in the summer for the Cubbies and Orange in the winter for the Bears. We are all entitled to "like" our favorite sports team.

15. Communication. Let's talk. A good friend of mine said if they can't pick up the phone and call you, then end it. The sound and tone of a persons voice is important. I will say I hate talking on the phone so I wont be the highschool girl falling asleep to the sound of your breath on the phone.

16. I do not date out of my race. This does not make me a racist, it is merely my preference.

17. If you are under the age of 38, please do not email me. I find it all flattering but am looking for someone closer to my age.



I realize there is no perfect situation. So if you want to take that chance after reading all the above, awesome. Don't be shy, let's just have fun.



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