The philosophy I live by is that you don't have to be loud and gregarious to be interesting. I want to find a friend who's also friendly on a physical level. I like my partners to be people I'd hang around with even if we weren't having sex. Commitment-wise, it doesn't have to be serious, so long as we enjoy it. I get along best with people who have a positive attitude. For me a perfect date is dinner in so we can get to know each other better. If you contact me I might not reply immediately since I'm new to this and still a bit shy. I'm not changing my life, I'm changing how I live it. I look forward to finding the right per; I know you're out there!