I would love a BF, but until then friends with & w/o "Benefits" are fine with me! I am a bottom, but I still act masculine (i.e. Metrosexual) who is very open (Discreet is [U]not a problem[/U] for me) & looking to meet new people & friends to have some fun! I'm kind, caring, intelligent, quiet in-person, especially at first, but I open up quickly, even [I]faster[/I] if I get the feeling that you're interested in me or like me Sexually, as I've already said, I'm strictly a bottom when it comes to fucking, which I haven't been fucked in forever so my ass is as tight as a virgin's ass! However I do also enjoy making-out, foreplay, and cuddling. I also enjoy oral sex, in particular sucking a guy off whether its just to get him hard for fucking or sucking him off to completion, and every guy I've been with has said I give some of the best head they've ever had! Of course I don't mind receiving some head myself after being fucked or sucking another guy off. Although I'm [B]NOT really into hook-ups[/B]; I'd much rather have a "Fuck Buddy", although I prefethe term Friends w/"Benefits" ( FWB ) ;-) . For guys that are into a bit more kinky sex, I do have a submissive experience I've had is being tied-up face-down spread-eagle to a bed while being fucked by a FWB I used to have, but I loved it & what made it EVEN better was that afterwards we switched to the complete opposite, and what I mean by that is things went from me submitting to him & being tied-up to laying next to him as an equal making-out & cuddling and then falling asleep holding each other in our arms (which is 1 of my FAVORITE things to do).

My Ideal Person I would LOVE to have a Boyfriend and if I could create the "Perfect Partner" for me he would be around my age or slightly older (Ideally around 29-32) that was physically attractive. I personally find myself attracted to slim/athletic guys as well as guys that you could say are sightly more muscular, kind of like a "Hunk", (not too much muscle though, like professional weight-lifters). In general similar looking to an Abercrombie & Fitch model. He would have Masculine mannerisms, and not be feminine acting, or in other words he would be "str8-acting" (I am attracted to guys that the only way you would know that they are gay, is if they told you. That's how I am.). Now I'm not trying to be racist, but since it is my ideal/perfect guy, he would be white and have brown or blonde hair, although black hair would be fine, its red hair that I'm least attracted to (excluding any grey haired or bald guys). He would be clean shaven face and have a nice smooth chest with the exception of a bit of hair below his navel where his "Happy Trail" would begin. Following his Happy Trail down, he would have some pubic hair, a little bush, but not super hairy, and at the end of his Happy Trail you would find a nice larger than average (about 7-7.5" long), but proportionate in thickness Circumcised cock that was about 7-7.5" long. Of course looks aren't absolutely EVERYTHING, so he wouldn't just be a "dumb hot jock", rather he would have average to above average intelligence and share the same interests as me. Not just things like movies, food & clothes, but more personal interests including sexual interests as well. He would always hold me in his arms when we watched TV or a movie, and would be affectionate & caring with me. In return he would never have to J/O to get rid of his "morning wood" as I'd be there to gladly service his cock with my mouth and anytime he wanted to have sex, I would be there for him to fuck. He like me would have an interest in some mild bondage (Yes I'm talking about BDSM) & so sometimes he would tie me up, maybe even gag me before he proceeded to pound away at my ass. Afterwards though he'd untie me and after cleaning up, we would return to bed in in each other's arms while making out. The main difference being that he wouldn't just see think of me as lesser of a person than him or an object like some guys do in the case of guys who are "slaves", the exact opposite in fact as he would think of and treat me as an equal partner (Just one that lives to please and keep things fresh & different.

Being realistic, I would prefer a guy be between 21-36yo (although I'm ok with guys 18-40). I am only interested in masculine or str8-acting guys, but I don't really expect you to look like an Abercrombie & Fitch model as I don't look like one, however for guys looking to get physical or at least have it be an option, I am at least expecting you to be in average shape and not excessively overweight. Now if you don't fit the criteria I listed then it just means that more than likely nothing physical or sexual is a possibility; however it does NOT mean that we can't still be friends!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, Chastity (Being Locked in a Chastity Device)

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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