I'm looking to meet some new people for friendships and possibly benefits w/the right one. I am open to an LTR with the right man. I want to wake up every day eager to face the possibilities, and gain new perspectives. I party on occasion, and am drug free. I have to be responsible for, at home and full-time. If you are looking to be first in your lady's life, check back in a few years. My will come first until they are on their own. Fortunately, that will be soon. I like reading, good movies, working out, live music, theater, being outdoors, gardening, dancing, being romanced. I follow politics and not much on TV. I am not one to sit still, or lay around all day. A little of that is wonderful, but I like to get moving at some point. I'm not changing my life. I'm just stretching the boundaries some. I don't believe in being joined at the hip and am not looking for a husband or a sugar daddy. Men and women should have friends and interests of their own, and allow and be allowed time to pursue them. I like to have some time to myself, too. If you contact me please give me some time to reply as I'm pretty busy. And, btw, I don't live or work in Carmel. It is about halfway between for me, and I like it there.

My Ideal Person For me a perfect date is time spent with someone with whom you feel happy, safe, comfortable and wanted. My partners will be people I'd like to hang around with even if we weren't involved.

I am looking to meet new, nice, interesting, sexy people. Sexy has as much to do w/personality as looks. Intellect and charm are sexy. It takes at least a few conversations for me to decide if I may want to be intimate, really (lol.) I mean, how else will we know if we even like each other? Chemistry is definitely important. I'm looking for quality over quantity. But if it's quality, lots of quantity!

I prefer men who are willing to visit w/me in the kitchen while I'm cooking dinner, opposed to parking in front of the TV. If he'll cook with me, even better He will be a classy gentleman in public, and OWN me in bed.

I like strong, secure, fit gentleman with that rugged side. I love strong arms and warm hands to hold me. I think the best sex is intimate, passionate, personal. Trust is HUGE. A person's innermost thoughts, feelings, and deeds should always be kept safe, even when it is over. It is an honor and privilege to know someone intimately.

If you are attached or obese, please move on. I would like to see you before I see your penis, but if it is spectacular of course I'll look. Please be well groomed.

I get along best with people who have a positive attitude, respect for others and decent manners.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Strong, mature, alpha males: Robert Redford, Brad Pitt,
Sean Connery, George Clooney. But I am a Republican, so
this has me really conflicted, lol.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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