**UPDATE 11/5/2015** I logged back into this site this week after being away for a few months. Much to my chagrin, I found that things here have changed for the worse. This site was always pretty hit-or-miss for me, never really good for meeting women (although I did meet one, and she was terrific!). Most of the hits here were from guys, and I was ok with that. I had a handful of hookups that were just what I was looking for at the time. In fact I was hoping for more of the same when came back this week. Most of the e-mail exchanges went nowhere, with people probably not serious about meeting in the first place. The odds were low, but acceptable to me. Now I find that the ability to read e-mails has been stripped from members that don't pay to subscribe. I've never had to pay for sex, and I don't intend to pay for just the long shot chance of it that I know this site to offer. So without the ability to actually connect, I ask, what's the point? My rea for posting this is twofold. First of all, for those of you who have messaged me lately, I'm sorry but I can't read them. I don't mean to be rude, not my rules. Second, and more importantly, I want to say goodbye. It was a good run, but now it's over (again, not my choice). To those of you that I have had the pleasure to meet: Thank you, it was fun! To everyone else: Goodbye, and good luck! Just because it doesn't work for me, doesn't mean that it shouldn't work for you. I've never judged negatively what people are into, and I won't start now. Party on! Original Post: I like different things at different times. The challenge has always been in getting what I want when I want it. Please don't drag my ass around with endless e-mails. While I don't like to waste time in getting together, I do like to take my time once we get there. We should both (all) be comfortable and not feel rushed. Some light conversation... flirt, flirt, flirt... a little grab-ass... make out a little... take it from there. That's how I roll. Any of that work for you?