Very respectful man looking for a woman that loves oral. Find me on IM! Or if you are able, send me a message. For the past 10+ years I've had an account here and every few years I would come on to look around on IM but have never met up with anyone yet. I decided it's finally time to fill out the profile and buy a gold membership and maybe even browse gold member profiles of people that don't typically go on IM. I bought gold just in time for the pandemic, so that worked out really well... :) A little about my situation... I am stuck in a marriage with virtually no sexual satisfaction. Each day goes by in which I am completely ignored sexually, untouched, nothing initiated. Even if I try to flirt, whisper sexual things, communicate my needs. I really do give a lot in other aspects of the relationship and go the extra mile in many cases where something sexual is promised to me and then never happens anyway even after I go through with my end of the deal. I don't think it's fair to dangle things in front of me like that and then not even follow through. Can you believe she has never made me cum with her hands or her mouth and doesn't even try EVER? I can have occasional sex with her, maybe a couple times a month if i'm lucky, but she is not really having sex with me. Instead, I get to fuck her while she lays motionless like the starfish or pillow princess she is. I should mention that I absolutely love giving oral to orgasm and am willing to do this every day, love using my fingers on her, but there is no reciprocation. Through the years, she has told me she doesn't love me. Another thing is I am not allowed to pleasure myself and I take that pretty seriously trying to hold up my end of the bargain for her, but it doesn't help me get any. It really backfires actually because it makes me take drastic action like coming to this site. I haven't met up with anyone yet, but I really feel like it could finally be time. The tricky part of the whole thing is we have , so I don't want to change anything at home. So if you are OK with that situation, and I'd feel even better if you were married in a similar situation because then we both understand how important it is to be discreet, but that is certainly not a requirement. What I am looking for.... On one hand, since I met her young, got married young, and have only ever been with her, my first wish is just to see what another woman is like. I would love to see what another woman looks like, feels like, smells like, and tastes like. I'm not trying to creep you out by saying "smells", it really is something i'm really curious about. I would even be content just to meet up with someone and look at them or touch them, or I would really get off by pleasing them orally. I absolutely love eating pussy and I love giving orgasms with my tongue and the thought of licking someone I don't know does really turn on me, I can't lie. Going for a second, third, or more orgasm orally after the first, with each one feeling more explosive for the woman sounds like a really good time to me. On the other hand, since I've never had a handjob or blowjob, obviously I would love to find someone that enjoys pleasing a man and has the skills to do so. I fantasize about the thought of someone else making me cum besides myself. I really do want it so bad. Someone that enjoys sex and knows how they want it and actually fucks me, at least part of the time, would be so amazing. Keep in mind I love pleasing and I'm a pleaser at heart, but after living an entire sex life where I am the only pleaser, I would just love to meet another pleaser. I should mention that I really am attracted to almost all women I see. I do love curves and all body types. I love it when a girl smiles, it really makes me melt. There is more I can tell you if you want to know, just ask. Look for me on IM, send me a private message, please get in touch! I am totally clean, drug free, disease free, and an all around nice guy.

My Ideal Person Someone that can sympathize with the situation I described. Someone that can keep a secret. Someone that would let me please them, and if you want me to talk about my true ideal person, someone that is willing and able to please me sexually!