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Introduction
We're interested in an Inclusive/Poly relationship, and we seek where shared, interlude(s) with a companionate, self-sufficient, straight male with integrity can fit... If chemistry is comfortable, we'd like shared camping trips, some local music, local excursions, and more! Have an adult and her long term beau living close in, so discretion comes in (will discuss later)... [U]Must live in close vicinity[U] and understand our working schedule is rather difficult ~ unless planned out. Not here for a lot of different experiences as much as the right quality of real connection. Dick pics aren't the criteria, character and trust is. We tend more to a subset of old school Polyamory that's about relationships. Neither are we bisexual or into vari kinks/fetishes or cuckold scenarios, fine and all you are, although we would be intimately close and sharing her. I reiterate, we aren't bi, and not looking for just "play," Yet we like to play with someone who appreciates and can share dreams, vision and is open to the flow. Connection counts...
We enjoy interesting conversations, good food/wine, picnics, and sexual tension and such. Oh yes, we've got 6 dogs that will check you out too. ;~> Validation of primary relationship/yet being open to inclusivity is a must. No ropers or gamers. Everything goes easy till all are easy. Friends are good too. Oh yeah, some fun times would be nice! we can do with some of that! Going to need to adjust/adapt/be sensitive to you too! We tend to slower-going... developing connections. Essentially what matters is what has meaning, significance/value. We like it like that!
He's a Scorpio and she's a Virgo/Libra cusp - with all kinds convolutions of quixotic perality quirks... The mixed combination of Earthy, Airy and Watery ingredients makes for a slippery ride with ups and drops and mild to wild curves... Hold on to your pootie tang!!! You must be this tall to ride!
In addition to the attraction of outer appearances, there's a host of positive qualities in other areas that's important, ranging from trustworthiness and intelligence to humor and attentiveness to nuances in prospective partners, as it's much more about what lies beneath physical attraction than what meets the eye as superficially appealing. Apparently what's durable, endearing and attractive is through the way a per bonds with us! Are you ready to roll?
Sometimes we get a buzz going and anything would be pretty nice... Other times/situations charm and reflection is necessary. Emotional sensibilities are what make for best first impressions... Deeper relational qualities make for enduring connections. Life is full of folly and denial Perhaps some timidity is good, and so too is some spontaneity. Call us somewhat ambivalent! We've been through several experiences, and some of it was good, some problematic, even ruthlessly underming.. . Gonna have to woo and charm us with the value you bring. The quality of relationship is not measured in sexual pleasure in and of itself.Dialogue is as vital as good manners! If you only seek porno flesh market dialogue ~ may as well call the whole thing off! Amd we need to show our best side too! So everybody lies a little!
Did I mention being honest with your current partner(s) is important to us ethically? We don't enjoy being guilty, unethical conspirators, eh! Or how we get turned on camping? A myriad of details! And maybe I should deactivate this account because it said too much? too little? At times Pam's not been very supportive in the nonce... what all with my going ahead with a go ahead...
(Usual, maleficent legal warning for any and all gathering information for whatever rea without our consent!)
My Ideal Person Just be authentic, casual, all around person that's comfortable in own skin/psyche... Understand we are going to sort out maybe one, maybe two at a time to feel who fits and mutually.,... That's right!. Not to take too personally... We're here to express our real selves, find some connection with real folk, not to sort out whatever issues. Not saying we don't deal with issues
Passionate hearts and sex can be great, as is watching a beautiful sunrise sunset and feeling close, but slippery slopes we've been on with immature folk... and our own foibles. How 'bout we be a little confused about everything and so more respectful of each the other? Come what may... can't create "chemistry." We're fallible/// Love comes your way of it's own... in its' own roller-coaster' way... Gods only know what relational skill set can deal with all kinds individuals! Now just signed up for another year. Gods know if there's anybody we might select or feel at home with, and so expectations are more set on enjoying friendly companionship, a conversation/dialogue, rather than much else.
Jerome was picked to be the major voice, gate-keeper, arbiter in all things. He respects you, you earn it... don't expect it! Mercy on the innocent! But he's got a job of work to deal with all this.and stay the course. We can talk and in a forum and things can get lost or people can invest their expectations and really miss what;s being said...Need a bit of this and a wee bit less of that ... at least! We been through a lot of false starts. Done our own share of stupid! So we're reinventing ourselves as absolute beginners everyday, neh?, This sites's culture is sort of not happening for us in ways... see many others wondering the same. Some seem to need be hypercritical about our bottom line or try play the cock picture derby, or worse, can't take subtle hints... Many feel and tell me their in limbo, some are fast and furious and many others are slow in their comprehension skill sets... You find so very few can find anybody but short-change... How about we be individuals, not b just fall into some already comfortable, pre-enculturated slots! Talk to us... don't press an obsessive, porn mindset. That ain't communicating!
Wer want the grail... not the frail But frail it is! Find out now or later that people hedge on their inroductions...
My Ideal Person Just be authentic, casual, all around person that's comfortable in own skin/psyche... Understand we are going to sort out maybe one, maybe two at a time to feel who fits and mutually.,... That's right!. Not to take too personally... We're here to express our real selves, find some connection with real folk, not to sort out whatever issues. Not saying we don't deal with issues
Passionate hearts and sex can be great, as is watching a beautiful sunrise sunset and feeling close, but slippery slopes we've been on with immature folk... and our own foibles. How 'bout we be a little confused about everything and so more respectful of each the other? Come what may... can't create "chemistry." We're fallible/// Love comes your way of it's own... in its' own roller-coaster' way... Gods only know what relational skill set can deal with all kinds individuals! Now just signed up for another year. Gods know if there's anybody we might select or feel at home with, and so expectations are more set on enjoying friendly companionship, a conversation/dialogue, rather than much else.
Jerome was picked to be the major voice, gate-keeper, arbiter in all things. He respects you, you earn it... don't expect it! Mercy on the innocent! But he's got a job of work to deal with all this.and stay the course. We can talk and in a forum and things can get lost or people can invest their expectations and really miss what;s being said...Need a bit of this and a wee bit less of that ... at least! We been through a lot of false starts. Done our own share of stupid! So we're reinventing ourselves as absolute beginners everyday, neh?, This sites's culture is sort of not happening for us in ways... see many others wondering the same. Some seem to need be hypercritical about our bottom line or try play the cock picture derby, or worse, can't take subtle hints... Many feel and tell me their in limbo, some are fast and furious and many others are slow in their comprehension skill sets... You find so very few can find anybody but short-change... How about we be individuals, not b just fall into some already comfortable, pre-enculturated slots! Talk to us... don't press an obsessive, porn mindset. That ain't communicating!
Wer want the grail... not the frail But frail it is! Find out now or later that people hedge on their inroductions...
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Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Straight
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Looking For: Men |
Marital Status: | Married | ||
Swinger Type: | Not applicable | ||
Speaks: | English | ||
Have Children: | Yes. We live together. | ||
Want Children: | Happy with what we have | ||
Our Trophy Case: | |||
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Her |
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Birthdate: | November 4, 1952 | September 24, 1953 |
Relocate?: | Prefer not to say | Prefer not to say |
Height: | 5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm | 5 ft 7 in |
Body Type: | Average | Average |
Smoking: | I'm a light/social smoker | I'm a light/social smoker |
Drinking: | I'm a light/social drinker | I'm a light/social drinker |
Drugs: | Prefer not to say | I don't use drugs |
Education: | BA/BS (4 years college) | Prefer not to say |
Occupation: | Retired | RN |
Race: | Caucasian | Caucasian |
Religion: | Pagan | Not applicable |
Male Endowment: | Average/Average | N/A |
Circumcised: | Yes | N/A |
Bra Size: | N/A | 36 / 80 |
Hair Color: | Red/Auburn | Blonde |
Hair Length: | Long | Long |
Eye Color: | Brown | Gray |