I see a lot of people on here blame AFF for their lack of success but I don't see it that way. We are not having much/any luck on here either but I think finding a couple to match up with is just plain hard... I know there are some fake people on here. Men claiming to be part of a couple when their wife doesn't have any idea about him being on here, etc, etc... But even with that its just hard to find four people who match up with each others desires and wants. Take us for instance. We don't smoke. Don't drink much. At our age not much for hard partying but to be honest we were not that much into that when we were in our 20s... We are very involved with our family even though we are empty nesters. Need to be discrete with the fact that we are old perverts (lol) and keep that information to our selves... We both have always loved sex and are trying to keep fires burning. Nothing cold as ashes after the fire is gone... We have a years membership so we will keep this going for now. We would want to swap face pics and talk on phone before meeting but after we have talked enough to be comfortable swapping those things... And we would want our first meeting to be casual 9 times out of 10. We are not perfect hard bodies by any stretch and are not looking for that or models either.. But there has to be attraction. A lot of that would depend on personality and a friendly smile would go a long way toward a possible meeting.... Message us if you are curious about knowing more about us... thanks D&T