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BongoTom 48 / M
"Party animal - exploding with fun!"
Stafford, London, United Kingdom
 
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BongoTom 48/M
Stafford, London , United Kingdom
Introduction
Do you want to be pleasured, pampered and thrilled? Do you want your body to be venerated and ravished with tongue, lips and hands? Do you love to lose yourself in the moment and let go with wild abandon? Then get in touch! I love ladies of all shapes and sizes, ages and ethnicities - especially if you're playful and know what you want. I'm totally up for threesomes, foursomes and more. I've really enjoyed the threesomes (MFM and FMF) I've had and the play parties I've been to. For all practical purposes I'm straight, but have no problems with getting close to a man while giving physical pleasure to a woman. For example, I'd like to try fucklicking (in either role - or preferably both!). Having two women pouncing on me and giving them both pleasure was one of the greatest joys of my life, and I really want to do this again and try new things. I'm not into toys, filming/photos/cam, role play, heavy BDSM or humiliation. But I'm totally up for a little light playful kink, in a sub role. However, it's not essential - I really love vanilla sex too. What I like most is creativity, experimenting and sensual indulgence. Candlelight showers and baths together are what I crave. Licking decadent food and drink off your body, then feeling your hot, wet tongue doing the same on my body is heaven to me. And of course, I love penetrative sex too - preferably in as many positions as possible. Giving anal is mindblowing hot, especially if I can caress you and spoil you rotten at the same time (spooning works well for that!). If we have fun together and you want to meet up and do more of the same - or different things - that's great. But I would want to keep it casual and NSA. If you want to make it one time only, that's equally fine. I'd ideally like a small number of fuckbuddies/play partners, maybe supplemented with occasional one-night stands. It doesn't all have to be sex. I love watching bands in pubs and going for walks. If my sexual partners want to join me for those as a friend, they're very welcome; indeed, I think sex may often be better between mates than between strangers.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for mischievous, playful ladies who aren't afraid to say just what they want. I value a sense of fun and creativity higher than anything else in a lover. You can be short, tall, blonde, brunette, redhead, black or Asian, curvy or slender, I'll enjoy your body for whatever it is. (I will admit, I do tend to get a bit doolally over smooth, round curves - whether full or slim - but as long as you flash an exciting smile, you'll get my pulse going.)

My ideal fuckbuddy would be a lady who:
- loves being pampered
- is happy to receive lots of oral
- has a high sex drive after cumming, particularly through oral
- wants to pounce on me when sufficiently excited, in a feedback loop of mutual lust - and use all of my erogenous zones for her sexual satisfaction
- is not disappointed if I don't cum (as I often don't, especially on the first time with a new partner)
- is totally up for a whole day in bed, should the opportunity arise - but doesn't expect it to do so.

Also very happy to share ladies with other men.

Do ask if you have any questions - I want to hear your filthy ideas and be challenged!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage, Women frotting against me, e.g. against my ass, legs or
forearms, NB Will only give analingus, not receive

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Playfulness and mischief

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Celebrity crushes include Gemma Atkinson, Dawn French,
Felicity Kendal, Gail Porter, Sarah Millican, Amanda
Redman, Philippa Forrester, Alice Roberts. <br><br>
What do they have in common? A certain naughty, playful
attitude or flirtatiousness.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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Information
  • 48 / male
  • Stafford, London, United Kingdom
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: June 8, 1975
Hometown: Topsham, Exeter, Devon, United Kingdom
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: PhD/MD/Post doctorate
Occupation: Portfolio profession
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Long
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
My Trophy Case: