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Sex too Soon If a girl has sex with you on the first date..... do you think bad of her??? Would you think she was too easy.... and maybe not a keeper? I always heard that girls who slept with guys before the 6th date were considered sleazy... and not the kind of girl you take home to mom.... WHAT IS YOUR OPINION? THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG |
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We would talk about having sex on the first date. If she wants to then will go slow but usually on the first date I wait. I wait till we get to know each other better first.
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We would talk about having sex on the first date. If she wants to then will go slow but usually on the first date I wait. I wait till we get to know each other better first. THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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I wouldn't think anything Bad about her. Always a chance she would be a keeper. Dewy"s Cooterlicking Corner
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THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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I wouldn't think anything Bad about her. Always a chance she would be a keeper. THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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No. You are too cute to just drop over a non sex date. Beside the personality would be the clincher anyway. We love ya.
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If we have sex we have if she wants. No timetable. I don’t think anything less of her. Things happen, if you both like each other it’ll happen
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9/15/2018 5:19 pm |
I don't know why people put time tables on certain things, especially when it comes to a relationship. If you both are enjoying the time that you spend together and it leads to sex then so be it. Sex is very important to a relationship. If you both click and it happens on the first date and you think less of that person than you better take s really long look at yourself.
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9/15/2018 5:27 pm |
Well if each felt comfortable why not?.I personally wouldn't think less of anyone.
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9/15/2018 5:33 pm |
I'd not think less of her as some people just love sex. "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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Would not think bad of her and perhaps she will be the keeper.
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I meet a girl out of no where through a friend, then we meet again at a pool party. we walked off to a dark quite place we had hot and heavy sex till we came together. we then would meet and have sex party started to do the standard dating thing. bar seen and more sex. she was 23, I was 21 we married 2 years later and still married 32 years later.
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9/15/2018 5:48 pm |
Does not bother me either way if she sleeps with me on the first date or not. These days I would be surprised if she didn't. Years ago when I was much younger, I would have been surprised if she did. Times they are a changing
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If a girl has sex with you on the first date. .... If she doesn't, then she and I were not on a date. do you think bad of her??? ..... Hell no! The entire reason for inviting her out was to have sex. Thus making an "Intended date", an actual "Date". Would you think she was too easy. ....No. What pussy of a man is going to think , "Oh you too easy"?! FUCKING HELL, revoke that guys man card and give him a "I'm a pussy" card. ... and maybe not a keeper? ..... Most dates any man goes on, he is not always in search of woman to keep. But say he is in search of a woman to keep, and by fortunate circumstances, she too is looking for a man to keep... and they have sex, the first time out together , what's the fucking problem?!! Obviously at least the sex-part works..... so that's an awesome start. Sex is not always the reason why you are not considered to be kept. Sometimes there is something else wrong. "Sex" is just one, of many hoops of "Approval" to get through. I always heard that girls who slept with guys before the 6th date were considered sleazy......That's wrong.... Guys should dump the chick on her ass if she doesn't putout by the end of the 3rd intended-date. She's wasting his time. He needs to start dating other women. .. and not the kind of girl you take home to mom........ Chance are pretty good , his mom putout on the first or second date. .........Anyway, a man isn't suppose to take home women he dates [fucks]. IF she is still in his life in about two to three years, then go ahead make the intro.... but if you're ONLY "Dating" [no plans of settling] , there is absolutely no reason your mom [nor your dad] has to meet any of the women you're banging.
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9/15/2018 6:17 pm |
It can happen.....
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I don't know why people put time tables on certain things, especially when it comes to a relationship. If you both are enjoying the time that you spend together and it leads to sex then so be it. Sex is very important to a relationship. If you both click and it happens on the first date and you think less of that person than you better take s really long look at yourself. I can take a stab at that ..... People put timetables on certain things so they do not waste their their time. "Sex', in itself , is a very important hurdle. You [well anyone] should want to know if this is acceptable together before you put too much time in with someone. You don't want to find yourself hanging out with the woman for months and months, and not have sex. She starts to think of you as her "Friend", if too much time goes by - and no sex. By then, she would probably tell you, "If we have sex, that would ruin our friendship". ...... Fucking great, months wasted, and you end up her token gay friend. Also, not many men consider this because he is too enamored with the woman to care too much, she could just be stringing him along to buy her stuff , food and drink and do favors for her. So the timetable? If she doesn't show any sexual interest in you be the end of the 3rd time out together.... tell her you'll be dating other women now. 3 strikes, that's the timetable to use.
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9/15/2018 6:55 pm |
If a girl has sex with you on the first date. .... If she doesn't, then she and I were not on a date. do you think bad of her??? ..... Hell no! The entire reason for inviting her out was to have sex. Thus making an "Intended date", an actual "Date". Would you think she was too easy. ....No. What pussy of a man is going to think , "Oh you too easy"?! FUCKING HELL, revoke that guys man card and give him a "I'm a pussy" card. ... and maybe not a keeper? ..... Most dates any man goes on, he is not always in search of woman to keep. But say he is in search of a woman to keep, and by fortunate circumstances, she too is looking for a man to keep... and they have sex, the first time out together , what's the fucking problem?!! Obviously at least the sex-part works..... so that's an awesome start. Sex is not always the reason why you are not considered to be kept. Sometimes there is something else wrong. "Sex" is just one, of many hoops of "Approval" to get through. I always heard that girls who slept with guys before the 6th date were considered sleazy......That's wrong.... Guys should dump the chick on her ass if she doesn't putout by the end of the 3rd intended-date. She's wasting his time. He needs to start dating other women. .. and not the kind of girl you take home to mom........ Chance are pretty good , his mom putout on the first or second date. .........Anyway, a man isn't suppose to take home women he dates [fucks]. IF she is still in his life in about two to three years, then go ahead make the intro.... but if you're ONLY "Dating" [no plans of settling] , there is absolutely no reason your mom [nor your dad] has to meet any of the women you're banging.
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i used to be more judgmental. the modern information age is getting me over it. i think it depends more on how well a couple can get along.
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I have no prob with a gal that wants to have funn on the 1st date, have met many that were willing, but out of all I have dated, they were less than 5% of the total. I have no issue if they DONT want to have funn on the 1st date either, but I hope that by the 2nd or 3rd date we will be having funn. If not, well, then I probably chose the wrong gal to ask on a date. What puzzles me tho, are the gals that want funn on the 1st date, and then promising a 2nd date or more, and I never hear from them again. I know I am good at funn, some have said great in fact. But the unknown always makes me wonder why?
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I agree with you. There is nothing wrong with what you want. You want sex. You want to fuck! Okay. Well that's called NSA. So just tell her you want NSA sex and if something grows from there then cool. Just be totally honest from the beginning. If she's not having sex with you on the first date then somebody hasn't been honest with what they want. "Dating" is noncommittal. Limitless in how many you choose to date. So just tell her you want NSA sex ... No need to say that. By the simple fact that you've invited her out on a "Date", is telling the woman you want to have sex with her. She accepts, or she doesn't. Just be totally honest from the beginning. ... What's been lied about if you invite a woman to date you? Answer: Nothing. Dating the woman, is the same as NSA sex. When you invite a woman out, you are telling her you want to have sex with her. She, or you, can date whomever you want. There is no exclusivity. Getting any more serious than "Dating", that goes into the Boyfriend-Girlfriend realm. Then you don't say you're "Dating"... you say , "She's my girlfriend". If she's not having sex with you on the first date then somebody hasn't been honest with what they want...... No. Or maybe the guy approached her with the idea of being friends first...that's always a mistake. If she isn't having sex with you, she either doesn't want to, or she's not sure yet..... so you allow her the "3 strikes" rule. Don't waste your time [and if you're a pussy, she's wasting your money, too]. No interest shown by the end of [at most] the third intended date.... then you walk away.
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9/15/2018 10:12 pm |
Do what makes u happy. Reason I say that is some people are narrow minded. Along with whatever going 2 happen. Just go with it.
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I'd a child of the 70s! Back then we found someone to take home and have sex with, THEN, later we decided it something more might develop. Terrible Texting Travails The BEST Thing About This Particular Nekkie Resort Nekkie Resort Games, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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9/16/2018 9:06 am |
Well that's called sex/NSA. ..."NSA" is the same as saying "Dating". "Dating" is noncommittal. Limitless in how many you choose to date. So just tell her you want NSA sex ... No need to say that. By the simple fact that you've invited her out on a "Date", is telling the woman you want to have sex with her. She accepts, or she doesn't. Just be totally honest from the beginning. ... What's been lied about if you invite a woman to date you? Answer: Nothing. Dating the woman, is the same as NSA sex. When you invite a woman out, you are telling her you want to have sex with her. She, or you, can date whomever you want. There is no exclusivity. Getting any more serious than "Dating", that goes into the Boyfriend-Girlfriend realm. Then you don't say you're "Dating"... you say , "She's my girlfriend". If she's not having sex with you on the first date then somebody hasn't been honest with what they want...... No. Or maybe the guy approached her with the idea of being friends first...that's always a mistake. If she isn't having sex with you, she either doesn't want to, or she's not sure yet..... so you allow her the "3 strikes" rule. Don't waste your time [and if you're a pussy, she's wasting your money, too]. No interest shown by the end of [at most] the third intended date.... then you walk away.
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Either way is fine with me. If we like each other and our clothes do not come off until the third or fifth date..that is fine with me
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9/17/2018 12:17 am |
First time,,, Lucky. Second time Lighting. Third time KeeperrrrRRRRrrrr. (\/)y second wife,,, first time,,, ,,,we fucked for 3 day*z . Kept each other for 6yrs, fukn stopped. ][ got thrown away. Free Range/Open Season now. Not till ][ hear /-/er reply to a very particular phrase will ][ try again. ][ await.
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well all I can say about this is that your idea about dating may not be someone else's idea of dating. so I'm just saying clarify your expectations of dating. so I'm just saying clarify your expectations of dating. ...No, you're just saying you have another way of thinking about dating... no surprise, homosexuals probably do have a different concept. However when heterosexuals , man invites woman, or woman invites man, invite for a date, the concept is sexual, no strings attached, no limited to dating just the one. Do you really think when a man invites a woman on a date , he's expecting that she is committed to just him?...Hell no. She could very well be dating other men. Having sex with them. Some women turn down dates, because she is dating a guy.... she doesn't want to have sex with two different guys, at different times. Most heterosexual men invite women out on a date because they want to have sex with that woman. .... I think we can all agree on that. So she agrees to the date. [Is she agreeing to go out with him because he's foolish enough to spend on her -she sees a free meal ticket....... or because she wants to have sex with him?] Sure.. she may not know yet... so she's not really saying yes to a date, she is saying yes, to hanging out with him to see if she really wants to have sex with him. Meanwhile , he is thinking he's on a date, when he's just hanging out with her.. But she could very well be "Dating" others guys [having sex with other men]... so that's why "Dating" is NSA. Maybe she likes him well enough to commit to him, but only time will tell, and she would have to tell the other guys she's taken... Of course some of them will insist on being friends with her..... that means just in case he dumps her, she can come running to him for more sex. If a man approaches a woman , and invites her to "Hangout" with him, what do you think he is are telling her? He's telling her , "I want to be your friend". That might be you... because you're not a heterosexual, so hanging out with her as a friend, would make sense. But... If he approaches a woman, and invites her to go on a "Date" with him. He is telling her , "I want to have NSA sex with you". A man goes out one or two , and three times... on "Intended dates", because he didn't invite her to "Hangout". He invited her on a "Date". Intended date 1: no sex...lots of talking. ----[inbetween intended dates: Lots of text, emails chatting] Intended date 2: no sex ..lots of talking. ----[inbetween intended dates: Lots of text, emails chatting] Intended date 3: no sex.. no sexual interest shown... lots of talking... DUMP! She is wasting his time. She is not interested. ============ The reasoning behind why "Dating" is NSA: When courting [going out with intent to get married one day] came to end in the late 1930's, "Dating" was brought back under a new understanding, ... to have sex outside of marriage. In America, in the 1820's, the phrase "Date" was most closely associated with prostitution, and really it still is. Today, there is illegal prostitution where you hand the woman some money for sex.... and legal prostitution where you both agree to go out and have sex, [although some men still thinks he has to pay her by buying her drink and food]. However, by the Jazz Age of the 1920's, dating for fun [sex] was becoming a cultural expectation, and by the 1930's, public perception assumed that any popular person would have lots of dates. But up into 1960 about... any single woman dating a lot with no marriage expectations was considered a tramp.
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9/17/2018 8:53 am |
well all I can say about this is that your idea about dating may not be someone else's idea of dating..... Sure , and there are still people who think Earth is flat, and a lot of other stupid stuff. so I'm just saying clarify your expectations of dating. ...No, you're just saying you have another way of thinking about dating... no surprise, homosexuals probably do have a different concept. However when heterosexuals , man invites woman, or woman invites man, invite for a date, the concept is sexual, no strings attached, no limited to dating just the one. Do you really think when a man invites a woman on a date , he's expecting that she is committed to just him?...Hell no. She could very well be dating other men. Having sex with them. Some women turn down dates, because she is dating a guy.... she doesn't want to have sex with two different guys, at different times. Most heterosexual men invite women out on a date because they want to have sex with that woman. .... I think we can all agree on that. So she agrees to the date. [Is she agreeing to go out with him because he's foolish enough to spend on her -she sees a free meal ticket....... or because she wants to have sex with him?] Sure.. she may not know yet... so she's not really saying yes to a date, she is saying yes, to hanging out with him to see if she really wants to have sex with him. Meanwhile , he is thinking he's on a date, when he's just hanging out with her.. But she could very well be "Dating" others guys [having sex with other men]... so that's why "Dating" is NSA. Maybe she likes him well enough to commit to him, but only time will tell, and she would have to tell the other guys she's taken... Of course some of them will insist on being friends with her..... that means just in case he dumps her, she can come running to him for more sex. If a man approaches a woman , and invites her to "Hangout" with him, what do you think he is are telling her? He's telling her , "I want to be your friend". That might be you... because you're not a heterosexual, so hanging out with her as a friend, would make sense. But... If he approaches a woman, and invites her to go on a "Date" with him. He is telling her , "I want to have NSA sex with you". A man goes out one or two , and three times... on "Intended dates", because he didn't invite her to "Hangout". He invited her on a "Date". Intended date 1: no sex...lots of talking. ----[inbetween intended dates: Lots of text, emails chatting] Intended date 2: no sex ..lots of talking. ----[inbetween intended dates: Lots of text, emails chatting] Intended date 3: no sex.. no sexual interest shown... lots of talking... DUMP! She is wasting his time. She is not interested. ============ The reasoning behind why "Dating" is NSA: When courting [going out with intent to get married one day] came to end in the late 1930's, "Dating" was brought back under a new understanding, ... to have sex outside of marriage. In America, in the 1820's, the phrase "Date" was most closely associated with prostitution, and really it still is. Today, there is illegal prostitution where you hand the woman some money for sex.... and legal prostitution where you both agree to go out and have sex, [although some men still thinks he has to pay her by buying her drink and food]. However, by the Jazz Age of the 1920's, dating for fun [sex] was becoming a cultural expectation, and by the 1930's, public perception assumed that any popular person would have lots of dates. But up into 1960 about... any single woman dating a lot with no marriage expectations was considered a tramp. Most heterosexual men invite women out on a date because they want to have sex with that woman. .... I think we can all agree on that I agree for the most part. But of course there are heterosexual men who date for other reasons. Sex is not the only reason. Sometimes they're looking to fall in love and get married.
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I have to admit you certainly have a very strong opinion on things very strong beliefs about the way that things are. I can't say that I agree with everything you say. But there are some things that we agree on. Most heterosexual men invite women out on a date because they want to have sex with that woman. .... I think we can all agree on that I agree for the most part. But of course there are heterosexual men who date for other reasons. Sex is not the only reason. Sometimes they're looking to fall in love and get married. No sex? Then for whatever reason they out together, it's not a date..., he'd only be inviting the woman out to "Hangout" with him... give him company, be his escort. This is why escorts can't be arrested, because a man is paying a woman to hangout with him. Essentially the same thing men do when they buy women dinners, meals, drinks for a woman. Going out, non-sexually, is not "Dating". For those of you who did think you were dating because you were paying for a woman to eat with you, or see a movie... or even if you were not paying... you were not on a date. Sometimes they're looking to fall in love and get married.....Absolutely... they can go out together without dating [having sex]. But eventually, if all their plumbing is still working, they have sex. They date.
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9/18/2018 3:01 pm |
But of course there are heterosexual men who date for other reasons. Sex is not the only reason. ... Sex is the only reason to "Date". Sex is why grownups go on dates. No sex? Then for whatever reason they out together, it's not a date..., he'd only be inviting the woman out to "Hangout" with him... give him company, be his escort. This is why escorts can't be arrested, because a man is paying a woman to hangout with him. Essentially the same thing men do when they buy women dinners, meals, drinks for a woman. Going out, non-sexually, is not "Dating". For those of you who did think you were dating because you were paying for a woman to eat with you, or see a movie... or even if you were not paying... you were not on a date. Sometimes they're looking to fall in love and get married.....Absolutely... they can go out together without dating [having sex]. But eventually, if all their plumbing is still working, they have sex. They date.
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Okay I think I understand. You believe that dating means sex. Dating is having sex.
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If I hook up with her on the first date not a keeper 4140974
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