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Not a clue as to WHY! Some just can't except what you write to them I guess.
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As long as a lady shows real spirit and is roughly in my league,it's basically ok Otherwise, no need to joust and hassle ... Cheers - P
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"conventional" beauty is thrust down our throats and into our brains so much now through the media that it is difficult to not become conditioned to it and to realise that the normal is not flawless skin, perfect hair, pneumatic boobs and washboard stomach. So everyone ends up chasing the same "ideals", with unrealistic expectations, rather than seeing the beauty in the people all around them. Increasingly women are falling into this trap too, and blokes have no chance of matching up to the media images of perfection.
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Things in common make a great match!!
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I think sometimes guys are after “hard to get” woman and as soon as they have gotten the pic they think “they got the girl” or as someone said they want a positive reply bcuz they have shown interest. I am not gonna say that I don’t appreciate traditional beauty standards. But for me a mind connection or chemistry or personality or similar interest are more important. The traditional beauty comes and goes. It is connection that keeps the flame alive.
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As long as a lady shows real spirit and is roughly in my league,it's basically ok Otherwise, no need to joust and hassle ... Cheers - P ---------------------------------------- Generally as I said , here on the shadows of the interwebs it's easier to play with wit and flair - tending to dim appearances Other than that, It's etiquette that counts with me around here Hope I answered your query my lady Cheers - P
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Oh, my, I've written way too much. My first wife was cute, but not conventionally attractive, and often overweight. Her main attractiveness was a positive personality that made her pleasant company. During most of the year between the end of my first marriage and meeting my now-wife, I was with an ex-model. Aside from one eye that was a bit funny-looking, she was very much conventionally attractive. (When she did modeling, the shots either obscured her funny eye with hair, showed her face in profile, or photoshopped.) But she was also a horrible person, and when I came to my senses I dumped her. Pictures I've seen in recent years suggest that her appearance isn't holding up very well, which is pretty unfortunate for her because her self-image is so strongly tied to what others think of her. My wife has a beautiful face, a lot like a 1940s movie star. (I'm trying to remember which one I had in mind.) Her figure is also conventionally attractive. But she's in her 40s, which would probably reduce the attention she would receive if she were on the dating market, even if she's still darn good looking. I like her for a lot more reasons than her looks, or I wouldn't have married her; her appearance is a nice bonus though. But the first impression was based on appearance, and I might not have learned about all her other favorable traits if her looks hadn't caught my attention first. If I were unattached, I'd be pretty flexible. For relationship potential, top priorities would be good character and general compatibility; youth and beauty would be bonus factors (and things that would catch my attention more quickly, since most other things take more time to discover). I might even be suspicious if someone exceptionally attractive or particularly young showed interest. For just fooling around (either if I were unattached or out on a pass), I might wish for attractive and young, but settle for available, enthusiastic, and OK-looking. There's kind of a vague scale of nice face, nice body, and youth, so that if the combination reaches a certain point I'd be interested. (The last time I was free for casual encounters, a woman with a plain face, somewhat fat body, but 25 years younger was a definite "yes", and a date with a woman with a nice face, great body, and five years older would have been a "yes" if she had been looking for a hook-up.) Also, I'd definitely make a sincere effort to make the experience good for the hypothetical woman, because mutual pleasure is always better, even in a casual hook-up, and has the additional benefit of improving the chances of more pleasurable encounters with the same person. Based on what I can see from the pictures you've shared, you're well into the "hot" end of the scale to my eyes, and younger than I am.
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